Aging is a part of life. Although that doesn't make it easier as we watch our parents getting older, planning ahead for their care can ensure they are happy, healthy, and secure in their golden years. What are the best ways to do that?

It's important to know when to start.

There are signs when an aging parent may begin to need living assistance. Over time, changes in their behavior and health may make living without help difficult. Be on the lookout for the following:

• Mood swings or changes
• Physical tasks becoming slower or more difficult
• Noticeable changes in weight
• Neglecting medication
• Failure to pay bills and other financial concerns
• Changes in home life (messy house, etc.)

What level of care do they require?

Once it has been determined that an aging parent requires assistance going about their daily lives, the next step is deciding the level of care they need. A large percentage of seniors prefer to continue living in their homes as they grow older, according to AARP. Caring for them will evolve as the years go by and needs change, so it's important to have a modifiable plan in place. For those with elderly parents who have decided to continue living at home, understanding their potential needs is crucial. Those may include:

• Cleaning and home maintenance
• Cooking
• Shopping
• General errands
• Transportation
• Medication oversight
• Help with electronic devices

For those with parents who require or prefer a senior living community, or who wish to live with a family member, it is essential to understand the different types of assistance available.

• Living with a family member - For seniors who need little help with daily living and who would benefit from the companionship, living with a relative may be the best option.
• Independent living communities - For seniors who can live independently but want to reside in an area with others in their age group, homes in independent living communities are an ideal choice. Many of them provide amenities such as transportation, cleaning services and social events.
• Assisted living communities - For seniors who have become less independent and require a higher level of help with daily life, assisted living communities provide a large scale of amenities and assistance, such as help with cooking, bathing, and medications.
• Nursing homes and rehab center - For seniors who require around-the-clock monitored care, nursing homes may be the right decision. These facilities provide a variety of care, including therapies, medication management, and nutrition support.

What's next?

The next steps in caring for senior parents will vary once the necessary level of assistance has been determined. It can be a difficult conversation, but you should talk to your parents about their wishes early on before they experience any deficiencies. Educating yourself on how to ensure their care as they age will make all the difference in their quality of life.