When it becomes time to transition your Alzheimer’s loved one to a professional memory care center, the transition period can be difficult for everyone, especially an Alzheimer’s patient. Even though every situation is unique, these tips can provide some guidance on how to transition an Alzheimer’s patient to memory care.

Address their cares and concerns

A loved one with Alzheimer’s may feel confused, sad, or apprehensive about the move. Address their fears, questions or concerns with understanding and be sensitive to their emotions. If they are still able to communicate, involve them in the conversation. Assure your loved one that the memory care community is a safe place where they will be cared for while doing the things they love.

Visit a memory care community

Take a tour of the memory care community and see for yourself if it is a professional and loving environment. Feel free to visit as many times as you like before moving so your loved one can get familiar with the new environment, staff and amenities.

Help with packing

To avoid stressing and overwhelming your loved one, pack their belongings for them or help them pack if they are able. Take care of donating or selling unwanted items and arrange to have their belongings in their new place of residence. Having their most valued possessions, such as photos or a favorite piece of furniture, will create familiarity and feelings of home, comfort and safety.

Do not rush the move

Take the day off on moving day and have someone with you for support. Schedule the move at a time that your loved one is most comfortable.

Speak to staff in advance to share information about your loved one’s needs and preferences and maybe even coping strategies. Avoid rushing the process and allow your loved one time to settle.

Visit often

Despite all your efforts to make the transition easy, there can still be challenges. Speak to the memory support staff about your loved one’s progress and what you can do to help. Your loved one may complain and ask to go home. It is natural for them to feel anger, frustration or sadness in the first few weeks when adjusting. Reassure them how much you care.

Visit often and try to understand some of their concerns. When they become agitated, redirect them to something positive and partake in activities with them.

Sometimes visits can trigger negative emotions. In this case, you can ask the staff for advice on how often to visit. Visits and calls from other family members or friends can help in these instances, keep them connected, and not feel forgotten.